Therefore, we must assume our responsibility in this process, we must consider our forms to act, and mainly, what implication degree we have in education of our minors. Fodder that nowadays the parents are scared to say ” no” to his children, they fear the consequences, what consequences, friendly parents? Our children must learn that the life is not a easy way, that the things it is necessary to fight them to obtain them, must learn that there is to eat what we like, and what not she likes us, that there is to accept the same to all the people, as much those fall who us well, like that no, that there is to respect to that she sweeps the street and to that governs country, that life has schedules that there is to accept and to fulfill, that we lived in a world in which the norms are necessary for making us the coexistence easiest.
The parents must learn to educate in attitudes and values, this obtains themselves determining limits, norms and rules. To educate is not to buy everything to him to the boy, ” because merece”. To educate is not to aim at the boy to piano, computer science, swimming, English, for ” that it learns more or ” not moleste”. To educate is not to take to the best school or to give the best celebration to him of birthday. To educate is not to leave in front of the television hours and hours him for ” that nonmilitary “. It is not necessary to confuse to educate with flattering, because what we will obtain will be uncertain people, egoistic, who will always make the things ” in exchange for ” , people who will grow without having nor defending ideals, will grow without true affection, and resources to remove benefit from their lives..