Perhaps it is not necessary to break themselves and their stereotypes, and easier to change work. If every day something annoys you, every day you all the harder to go to work, and you look forward to the evening, it is worth considering. Sometimes we lack the resolve to leave. Each person must prioritize. Just do not need to hold on for a place to the detriment of his health, or, for example, to the detriment of the health of the unborn child, you should not go to family conflicts. Remember, this is just a job. It can give only myself, but part of you must stay together with your loved ones, and they need you healthy.
Remember that hated the work – the cause of stress! What is the collective eyes of a new employee for the team? This is Jeopardy! Mr. X! Suddenly newcomer would be better, more promising? With the advent of the new man everyone is waiting for intrigue, rearrangement of priorities, possible layoffs. On the other hand a new employee – a new look at problems, new stories, it could save from the ordinary, podnadoevshey, boring life, breathe life into the 'land of nod'. Well, if the team qualified staff director or senior manager who could instruct the newcomer on the values companies to learn and share with the group characteristics and knowledge about a new person, enter it in the course of the case, to give more information about the duties. If such a person does, the newcomer will join the team himself.
A clever manager would give time brand new look, will not require as much as with others, will not immediately criticized, will provide an opportunity to prove themselves. You're lucky enough to work with a supervisor. If the collective only beginning to emerge, then the people in its essence will be to each be treated with suspicion, look closely. If a team was formed long ago, is the most difficult, especially if the people of all ages. You should understand that the team did not change for you! Finally, we arrive at a new job, one must understand why you have come to realize your goals. Should be prepared for difficulties. Need to be patient. We should not forget about the sense of self-esteem, but should not be too overconfident. Remember any opinion must be earned, and how to you will be treated depends only on yourself. If you do not want to do with you team, and attempts change the situation were not successful – remember, only you are creating your life. If you're the masochist – you will continue to suffer, and if not – before you open many doors of other bosses, you just choose! Believe in yourself!